Have you ever wondered if your man misses you as much as you do? Sometimes, men can find it difficult to show their emotions as well as women. It is actually a source of real pain to understand what goes on in your man’s mind when you aren’t around and whether he actually craves for your company or not.
It is easier to show your love when you are around each other. What actually proves a person’s serious involvement in your life is how much you feel their absence and what you wish to do to get them back. Here are 10 signs that will show you that he misses you so much and is thinking about you.
1. He makes excuses to talk to you
Some people choose to either forget you at their best and even at their worst they choose to build walls. Does he get back to you all the time? That kind of engagement in your life shows how much he loves to feel your presence in his life even if for the time being, it is virtual. Of course, he might have people to entertain him, but if you still find him leaving the rest to tell you all that he has to, you hover on his mind.
2. He is sharing photos or old posts of yesterday
Facebook, Instagram and Twitter have made it easy to share memories and so your smitten man continues to look to the past—namely by sharing photos, events and status messages that involve you. It may be an inside joke he once shared with you, a series of photos, or a gift you gave him. He may also ask you for pictures. Nostalgic guys who are missing you are extra visual. They want to recreate those past feelings with a few glimpses of how life used to be.
3. He is allover your Social Media
From liking, commenting to tagging you on posts he is always connected to you. He wishes to be relevant in your life as much as possible. He adores you and he misses you more when he comes across your posts. All those memories that you shared being physically present, that got captured in your pictures together, are shared by him very often. He misses you so much that he is not afraid to show that even on a public platform where most people choose to be discreet.
4. He Makes major lifestyle changes just to impress you
Men are natural providers and so it’s not surprising that they may try to win you over with exciting new lifestyle changes that can “provide” better for your needs. Whether it’s a new job, a new fitness regiment, or some “wonderful news” he has to share, it’s very clear that he’s gone back to trying to impress you.
5. Lame conversation starters to keep you talking
Whether it’s mundane talk about the weekend, sharing silly memes, or talking about movies or books he enjoys, he’s desperate to keep you entertained. Good sign…he doesn’t want you to forget him. He wants that open channel of communication.
6. He answers your texts and calls very quickly!
Many ladies would love their 8:00pm texts replied by 7:59pm…don’t we? Men who don’t care just don’t rush after the phone! But men who are still thinking about you are very quick to reply to messages, minutes or even seconds after you start a conversation.
7. He is genuinely interested in your issues whenever you meet
An uninterested guy would probably play it by ear. But this guy, who misses you so much, is going overboard, making sure all of your needs are met. He plans things in great detail and spends lots of time and money making sure your next meeting is everything you hoped it would be. He wants your next meeting to be special because he misses you so much.
8. He socially stalks you
If you feel that a guy has been “stalking” you on social media, he may be trying to show just how much he misses you. It’s not the direct approach…but then again, why else would he like every new post, or try to befriend you, or like your photos if he’s “not missing you”? Men who stalk, definitely miss!
9. He is suddenly jealous and overly interested in your male friends
He’s not jealous, but just starting to notice all of your guy friends and seems more insecure than ever before. What’s odd is that he never seemed to care before, but all of a sudden he’s taking an interest in the “competition.” He might even become agitated when you talk about other guys and try to belittle them.
10. He seems moody whenever you talk to him
If a guy seems unusually angry whenever you talk, it’s possible he’s having trouble dealing with you—and in other words, missing you dearly. He takes things out on you, hoping to elicit strong emotion from you one way or another.