It is highly likely that you or your friends have had bad experiences with men and relationships on campus. In fact, there is a study found that women are more likely to enter into toxic relationships. Why? Could it be Oedipus complex? Or is it something deeply psychological, built in the roots of our thinking and our society?
There are several common things a man who’s simply not in love with you, but you have a fling for him and don’t really know what is going on, casually does. Here are the basic “playing moves” a guy like that throws around, without any feelings, simply for fun. Do I need to tell you that this stereotype of man is a “never go out with him” category
The One Who is in a Relationship
It is not a secret that women find men who are already in relationships more attractive than single men. However, these type of men will not provide you any stability. They will be in it for fun and mostly, for your coochie! He will insist to spend more time indoors and you are probably going to have the perfect “home relationship” but he will never let you meet his friends or go to the movies with you. And he’ll definitely always manage his way out and never spend the night with you. Why? Because he’s obviously married or in a relationship!
The SMS Type
You’re always pleasantly surprised about each text you get from this guy, and he’s always thoughtful, caring and sweet talking. He surely texts other girls as well. Moreover, he probably sends the exact same message to more girls, as the fisherman throws his hook in the water while fishing. Don’t waste your time with this one, words need actions to be 100% true and remembered! So if he is not making the effort to meet you and spend time with you, avoid him like a plague!
The ‘I’m Not Interested’ Type
All people tend to do things out of stubbornness, proving themselves they can achieve something unachievable. If you find out that you’re the initiator of dates, you always have some fresh ideas on what to do and where to go, but he’s not responding, then he is not the guy. He is never enthusiastic of doing anything productive with you because he is definitely interested in doing these stuff with someone else!
The ‘Not about Love’ Type
You’ve met this guy in the most unexpected place, like public transport, a library or a casual coffee bar. He’s way older than you, but that’s what makes him interesting – his experience, and how he manages to always say the exact things you think at the moment.
He understands you… However, he never married and settled down, because he’s “super smart”. And you’re on the hook! Thinking you’re the one who’s going to change that. This is the ultimate play type and he has way more experience than you – just get out away from this toxic guy, because they’re very easy to fall in love with.
The flirtatious one
Whether it’s a guy from the gym, a guy at work, a guy from you diner’s, he’s always “in” for some flirting with you. He doesn’t even matter if you have a bad hair day!
However, he never does anything more except the flirting – he never steps in to talk to you, or invite you to a date, or ask a mutual friend about you. He’s just playing and killing loneliness and boredom, and you’re probably not the only one.