When Your Girlfriend Leaves You
Women leave and for many reasons in this case. A man finds hard to understand and come into terms with his girl leaving him for another guy. It hurts the most!
There is no problem when a woman leaves a man and hangs around. He can take the bitter pill for letting such a good thing slip through his fingers than regretting the loss to another man.
This habit didn’t start yesterday it has been there over the decades. A man will always be one!
Women leave in different ways; some die, others just decide to walk away from their men while the rest fall out of love and look for new partners.
One story that has always moved me is that of the Taj Mahal in India. It was built by a King in memory of his wife. He used half of his wealth to build it. To cut the story short the King spent his last days in a tiny room near Taj Mahal watching on his wife’s memorial place. It feels sad but a sweet story of a man who loved his woman.
When a neighbor or stranger steals glances at a woman the man feels like he can destroy all the men with bad eyes on his woman. Couples’ deaths have increased and if you are keen you can agree that there are many deaths that have been reported in the month of January and February simply because men cannot deal with the reality of their women leaving.
Imagine dating that girl all through your campus life, gone through all the hell together, shared part of your HELB loan with her then she wakes up one day and says its over? Nah! It can’t sink! The first reaction is denial. You can deny for a lifetime by the way. You will think she wants to mess with you a little. Maybe she wants to go out for dinner at Safari Park? Maybe the jewellery you refused to buy for her made her angry?
And then you will beg her not to go, but she won’t stop anyway.
All the testosterone kicks in! You play like it does not bother you anymore after all the world is full of women. You feel consoled and tell her you will get another one and she can just leave behind the keys.
Time flies and you realize she got another like you. Hell breaks! Again you become jealous like she is yours. You forget you parted ways but there is some special attachment. That she is still that girl for you. The one who knew all you are and wanted to be. That if given one more chance you could turn the world around.
One thing men cannot deal with is their women leaving them. It has proven to be the hardest.
If God could not save Adam from that mess who are you? Just a mere mortal of the 21st century! My point is love your woman or else you will watch her on the shoulders of another.